Planning a wedding can be a thrilling yet overwhelming experience, and as the pressure mounts, some couples find themselves yearning for a simpler, more intimate celebration. If you've decided to trade in the big white wedding for a romantic and intimate elopement, congrats! Now, the tricky part: breaking the news to your fam without causing a feud. Does this make you nervous? I totally understand. In this blog post, I'll guide you through the art of breaking the news to your family. But first, we’re going to talk about the pros of eloping, so if you’re still on the fence, keep reading!
Your Budgeting BFF
Let's face it – weddings can be expensive. From the venue and catering to the dress and decorations, the costs can quickly add up. Eloping allows you to prioritize what you two really want from the day — time devoted to only each other while you share a special experience or go on a new adventure, and of course, getting great photos to remember it by. In the end, you’ll be able to allocate more funds toward building your life together, which is a practical win from eloping.
Stress Reduction
The stress of planning a large wedding can put a strain on any couple. By eloping, you're eliminating the need to juggle seating charts, accommodate everyone's dietary preferences, and navigate family dynamics. A stress-free start to your marriage? Hell yes.
Intimate Vibes & Freedom
Big weddings can be like throwing a party for 30 of your closest friends... and 170 other people you barely know. Eloping is all about keeping it real and focusing on the love between you two. It's like a secret club for just the two of you – way more exclusive. But you know what? You CAN decide to elope with others along – the choice is completely up to you! Maybe you want your parents or 5 of your best friends along. You have the total freedom to choose how exclusive your day is.
How to Share the News
Tell the Love Story
Share the unique story of your relationship that led you to this decision. Highlight the special moments that brought you and your partner closer, emphasizing that your choice to elope is a reflection of your love, not a rejection of your family and friends.
DIY Announcements
Forget the generic group text. Craft something personal for your folks – maybe a cute card with photos from your elopement or a quirky video. Show them you put some thought into it, and it's not just a spur-of-the-moment thing. It’ll also show that you value the relationship you have with your friends and family.
Include Them in the Celebration
Even if you're eloping, find creative ways to involve the loved ones who aren’t attending. You can invite them to a post-elopement bash or share a live-streamed ceremony so they can witness your special moment virtually. They'll appreciate the effort, and you'll still get to celebrate with your nearest and dearest while maintaining the privacy of your elopement.
Do Your Thing
Breaking the news about eloping can be a delicate process, but with logic and a personal touch, you can thoughtfully explain the reasons behind your decision. Remember, your wedding is YOUR thing. Whether it's a grand spectacle or an intimate elopement, it's about the two of you. So, go ahead and share the news with confidence. Here's to a wedding day that's as kickass as you two! Cheers! 🥂